Planning the Perfect elopement
Sometimes, the idea of a big, traditional wedding feels like too much: too many people, too many opinions, and way too much stress over whether the napkins match the tablecloths. Enter the elopement—an intimate, adventurous, and totally romantic way to say “I do” without worrying about Aunt Carol’s seating arrangement.
Planning the perfect elopement doesn’t have to be a daunting task. You can also hire a wedding planner to assist you and handle all of the details and logistics. Here’s how to make your runaway wedding the stuff of fairytales (or Instagram dreams).
1. Choose Your Dream Destination
First things first, you need to figure our where you want to tie the knot. A windswept beach? A charming mountain cabin? The courthouse down the street? Elopements let you be as casual or as extravagant as you want.
For an unforgettable backdrop, think about places like national parks, cozy vineyards, or iconic cities. New Orleans, Vegas, and NYC all offer amazing options for couples who want a mix of fun and romance. (Plus, there’s always a killer party vibe nearby.)
2. Book the Perfect Stay
Your accommodation sets the tone for your elopement, so skip the motel and go for a cozy inn, a chic boutique hotel, or even a luxury cabin in the woods. Hotels can double as a great wedding backdrop, especially if they have swoon-worthy views, elegant architecture, or lush gardens.
Want to go all out? Book a suite or a honeymoon-worthy room to make the experience extra special whether you’re looking at hotels in Baltimore Maryland or Bali! You’re only doing this once (hopefully), so splurge a little!
3. Don’t Forget the Paperwork
Okay, this part isn’t glamorous, but it’s crucial. Every state has its own marriage license requirements, so do your research before you pack your bags. Some places have waiting periods or residency rules, while others let you walk in, sign the papers, and say “I do” the same day.
Keep your ID, paperwork, and any required documents handy. Nothing kills the romance faster than a “missing form” fiasco.
4. Pick Your Perfect Outfit
One of the best parts of eloping? You can wear whatever you want. Go full glam with a flowing gown and tuxedo, or keep it casual with something that makes you feel like you. Barefoot on the beach? Go for it. A chic jumpsuit for a city hall wedding? Yes, please.
Just make sure your outfit matches your location—climbing a mountain in stilettos sounds like a nightmare waiting to happen.
5. Add a Few Personal Touches
Elopements are small, for sure, but that really doesn’t mean that they have to be boring. Bring along a bouquet, write your own vows, or hire a photographer to capture the day. If you’re skipping the crowd, why not splurge on the little things that make the moment extra magical?
6. Celebrate Your Way
After the ceremony, it’s time to party—your way. Whether it’s a romantic dinner at your hotel’s restaurant, a private picnic in the park, or a wild night out, celebrate how you want without worrying about impressing a crowd, and it will be a much more relaxed, and possibly even more meaningful, affair.
Happily ever after, simplified!
XO,
Table 6